Moving On

Moving on. Sometimes when I am alone, some memories of my past came rushing into me. I don’t have regrets for what I have done with my life. Its not that I am not happy now, or that I haven’t move on with my life because I am. I am happy and I have moved on.

And I am sorry for the people who aren’t able to move on with their lives, I am not a good at giving advices but I will try to give you some ideas on how to move on.

If you just broke up with your boyfriend who doesn’t deserve you because he doesn’t treat you like a girlfriend, move on. If you love someone who doesn’t feel the same way towards you, move on. If your man treats you like you are just an option, move on. Why? Because you need to move on. You need to get away from these kinds of people because you don’t deserve to be treated like that.

Acceptance – you need to accept that things have change or it will change. This is the first thing that you need to do. You need to accept that your relationship has failed.

Cry – cry yourself out. Give yourself the chance to mourn for your failed relationship, after accepting that things aren’t the same anymore, you need to let your emotions out. You need to cry your heart out, and after that you will feel better, believe me.

Direct – give your life a new direction. After mourning for a lost love, find a new hobby or project that will give your life a new meaning. Learn to play the guitar, try to create your own blog, or buy a new pet that you can play with.

If after doing the three things I have written above wont do, consult a doctor. Believe me, you will be able to live your life after losing your bitter half to a new witch in his life, or for ditching you, or for taking you for granted, because he didn’t breathe life into you, your mom did.

16 Responses to Moving On
  1. LOURDES
    August 16, 2012 | 2:31 pm

    Sometimes it’s easier said than done. But I agree with you that one must move on and it’s not the end of the world.

  2. Marky
    August 20, 2012 | 9:43 am

    They all say moving on is hard, that’s true. It’s painful and sad. But if we just to learn to accept things right away, it will be better soon.

  3. Shela
    August 20, 2012 | 11:09 am

    Lets moving on… next please! :) ) I like your positivity! Have a good morning sis!

  4. Algene
    August 20, 2012 | 12:14 pm

    Moving on! Such an inspiring post, sis! :)

  5. Arlene
    August 20, 2012 | 3:14 pm

    I still cry of some memories in the past but surely I have moved on. There are some things in the past that can never be forgotten no matter how much effort you try to forget it. ^^

  6. jheylo
    August 20, 2012 | 8:49 pm

    I think it’s easier said than done for most people. Some people out there, they can’t simply let go of that person though they think don’t deserve their love because they’re not being treated like they should, but because of their love and devotion to that person, i guess whatever it takes just to be with that person, they’ll sacrifies for the sake of love. That’s one of the reason why i waited until after my bloom years that way i can choose the right my partner to be with me and we’ll grow old together.

  7. Lulu
    August 20, 2012 | 9:08 pm

    some people find it hard to move on. I always advice my friends to cry and cry some more then after that I advise them to move on and think that something better will come along.

    Check my latest post here: http://www.lulu-cooking.com/2012/08/review-pretzel-crisps.html

  8. Jessica Cassidy
    August 20, 2012 | 10:02 pm

    Some people does not do good on our lives and that we need to move on :-) It could be a friend or a relationship. Life must move on without them :-)

  9. Bless
    August 20, 2012 | 11:33 pm

    an inspiring post! moving on with positive attitude that is :-)

  10. Janet Speaks
    August 21, 2012 | 1:43 am

    Great advice on how to move on!

    Really, I agree. A lot of people have a hard time moving on. It takes time. Plus you also have to consider the trust issues. Sigh.

  11. emzkie
    August 21, 2012 | 3:25 am

    pretty cool advice.
    i had a lot of trials before but was able to move on pretty quickly, because my family was with me, help me get back, and was very supportive all the way. I guess thats what people really need in order to move on, because if u are just by urself, it would take centuries. =D
    and thank you for the nice words in my post.

  12. Mommy Emotes
    August 21, 2012 | 5:24 am

    This is a nice post Mommy especially that all of us needs to having moving on as part of our life. :)

  13. haze
    August 21, 2012 | 10:05 am

    This is all true. What a good piece of advice. Yes, there is always someone better that deserves you or us.

  14. MY PICNIC BASKET
    August 21, 2012 | 10:11 am

    It is a very good advice, but some times it is always to say words but hard to do it..but I think healing takes time..sometimes accepting the true made us hurt but what can we do, that is all solution..

  15. emm
    August 21, 2012 | 10:29 am

    Good advise there. Personally, I think the most effective way to move on is to offer your pain, worries, fears and doubt to God. Talking to Him can ease the pain…that’s an assurance. :)

  16. sir rob
    August 21, 2012 | 11:04 am

    Moving on is not easy but not it is not hard either if we are ready to let go of it.

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